May 2013
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Butch Please: Butch With A Side Of Misogyny →
“It’s easy for us to say that we don’t participate in the patriarchy because we are women, or because we have been women, that we have known what it’s like to be objectified, oppressed, fetishized….
A good reminder.
February 2013
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My dog is the biggest cock block.
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Sfweekly.com: Gag Order: Sex Workers Allege... →
amydentata:
queershoulder:
So, so glad people are finally speaking out about this.
If you claim to be an ethical business, it helps to actually follow through.
Who knows what is and is not true in this story. My guess, is that Kink.com, like any large company, has some satisfied employees and some unsatisfied employees. Someone loves how they are treated, someone does not. Regardless, if...
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Butch/femme Project →
Beautiful photography so far.
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Femininity is depicted as weakness, the sapping of strength, yet masculinity is...
– (via theblacksophisticate)
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I like sex because it feels good, of course. But also because it’s an...
– I agree.
The Pervocracy: Rebellion. (via sexisnottheenemy)
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Pineapple, Spinach, Artichoke, Kalamata Olives,...
Because graduate school is so damn discouraging, reasons that I am special and have things to contribute to the world:
1) I make delicious homemade pizza.
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On the Outside of "Normal" →
A great blog post by a friend and colleague on living in a world full of agism and heternormativity.
“I’m standing in the elevator on the UC campus with my partner. A professional looking man gets on the elevator and says to my partner “Oh, you brought your son to work today?” I am reluctant to say anything, but their conversation continues.
My partner: No, she’s a girl.
Man: Oh you...
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25 Things You Don't Have To Justify To Anyone →
Good reminder to everyone.
kimball12:
Good reminder to me. Posting to help myself remember.
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Amen.
colormecurvy:
I hate the phrase “boys will be boys” and I think it should be replaced with “bad parenting results in assholes”
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January 2013
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FEMMES GODDAMN WELL KNOW HOW TO STRAP IT ON
PUT THE OIL IN THE CAR AND PUT UP...
– I’ve never seen this before, but I love it.
The Femme Shark Manifesto
Feeling these awesome bits a lot today!
(via babyfemmeshark)
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Things parents forget to tell their children: →
I love this list.
lower-class-brat:
Bodies are hairy. No matter the gender, your face will have hair and that is more than okay.
Your butthole is going to have some hair too. And maybe your nipples. And your tummy. And where ever else.
Stretch marks. Those are a thing. Everyone gets ‘em. If you don’t, you probably don’t have skin.
Vaginas smell. Every vagina has a scent. Don’t worry about...
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Non-primary partners tell: How to treat us well →
I’m not in a poly relationship currently, but this looks like a great list.
“DO:
Honor time commitments and dates.
Listen to, validate, and be flexible toward your non-primary partner’s needs and concerns.
Make your non-primary relationship a priority.
Offer reassurance and understanding.
Embrace your non-primary partner’s world.
Keep your promises.
Support good metamour...
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